I Finally Get Veterans Day

I don’t remember anything about Veterans Day from my childhood. I don’t recall talking about it at school. Don’t remember knowing what a veteran was. Don’t come from a family of many vets. Can’t think of anytime before adulthood when I saw Veterans Day on the calendar or thought twice about it when I did.

And, to be honest, for most of my adulthood I didn’t pay it much attention. I’m sure I had to get beyond early adulthood, beyond those years of finishing college and starting my career, getting married and raising a family, to have the time and energy to focus on what was going on around the world. To weigh what life must be like in other countries compared to what it is like here. And to really appreciate that.

Whenever the opportunity presents itself, I talk to my students about how fortunate they are to live in America. We talk about our freedoms and our quality of life. We read about people who came to America looking for jobs and other opportunities. And, especially, we talk about the free education available to every child in America. I want my students to realize that not all children around the world get to go to school and that the reasons many of them cannot is because their families cannot afford it. Or that not every child has equal opportunity. I want them to treasure and embrace the free education that is available to them and to never, ever take it for granted.

But I don’t talk too much about the price that was paid for our freedom, for our way of life, for our country which much of the world envies. It’s complicated. It’s confusing. It can be too much for seven- and eight-year-olds.

But this year we had an event at our school that provided the opportunity to teach my second grade students about Veterans Day – what it means and why we celebrate it.

A teacher at our school – who is also a mother of a veteran just returned safely from Afghanistan – organized a veterans celebration on our campus. Students and staff invited relatives who currently are, or did, serve in the United States armed services. Students brought in photos of their vets and these were displayed on a big red, white, and blue Wall of Fame. The staff at our school cooked up an impressive breakfast for the 40 veterans who attended that day. Then, the veterans, easily distinguished by their uniforms, the staff, parents, and the entire student body gathered at the flag pole shortly after school started.

We all watched, solemn and serious, as two men in uniform raised the flag against the early morning light. The silence was broken with the singing of the national anthem. I couldn’t see the person who was performing, so I watched my students instead. As they double checked to make sure they had the correct hand across their chest. As they focused on keeping their eyes on the flag, just as we do each morning during the pledge. As they refrained from talking or wiggling or joining in on the singing. As my throat thickened and my left hand moved to cover, in that crucial motion, the emotion building on my countenance. Upon that final note, I let out a loud whoop, as I would at a baseball game or most other gatherings where the national anthem is sang, realizing a second too late my faux pas. Several of my students turned and looked at me, standing behind them, utter shock and disappointment on their faces. How disrespectful, Ms. Bergen.

A few days beforehand the students had carefully penned a Dear Veteran letter and I had them role play going up to a total stranger veteran, with their hand out, ready for shaking, and say, “Thank you for your service to our country.” This opportunity – to shake a veteran’s hand and present the letter they wrote – was what they all were really looking forward to.

As the flagpole ceremony ended, I brought my class around to where the veterans were lined up. They walked down the line, so obedient, so respectful, so in awe. And I watched each and every one of them approach a vet, hand out, letter ready.

And I knew then how important Veterans Day was to me.

As we walked back to our classroom, I heard one student say to her friend, “Man, that made me get tears in my eyes.” Back in class, we had a quick discussion about the emotion we felt during the ceremony. Most students concurred; they had almost teared up.

And I knew then how important Veterans Day was to them, too.

Veteran Letter 3

Veteran Letter 2

Veteran Letter 1

9 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. warburk2013
    Nov 12, 2014 @ 23:11:39

    Great story and I love the art work and letters!


  2. AwakeningAngels
    Nov 12, 2014 @ 23:29:39

    I love this! It is really nice to take the time to reflect upon all of this and what people actually went through. Thank you for taking the time to write this post, to inspire us to remember 🙂 With love, Sharon


  3. Deborah
    Nov 13, 2014 @ 00:45:46

    I almost teared up here, half a world away. This is beautiful–and a lesson none of them will soon forget. ❤


  4. betunada
    Nov 14, 2014 @ 20:41:03

    i hafta comment ’cause i couldn’t find the “like” button for this
    ( i “had to” get vet’s day early on… i think i was the FIRST (male) in both family lines not to be a vet. berleave it oar knot: my mom’s dad was a colonel … in the CAVALRY ! )


  5. Barbie Harris
    Nov 15, 2014 @ 10:03:08

    Randee, I remember celebrating Veterans Day at Centennial:) I brought in Mark’s and my uniforms, pictures of my Dad (WWII Vet) Brother’s and feeling so emotional and Proud of my families service. I am the first female from my family to Serve. We currently have my Son John, Nephew Jake, Niece-in-law Brandy (Army), Brian T(Navy) and Sarah (John’s girlfriend, Coast Guard) serving (plus many other friends sons). Thank you for honoring our Vet’s past and present. Your words moved me. We know Freedom is not Free. We are Blessed to live in America, because of all the men and women who have and continue to serve. We all have so much to be thankful for. We were so Blessed to have you for Michael & Hannah’s Kindergarten teacher. YOU are simply the best. I love and miss you & your girls, my dear friend. Love, Barbie


    • randee
      Nov 15, 2014 @ 10:20:54

      Barbie, thank you for your comment and your service. I’m sure you made a huge impact on many lives as a military nurse. I vaguely remember Veterans Day at Centennial, but those were my crazy busy years. I suppose these years are the same. I think you might like my next blog, which is a true story.


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